Resources on Waiting
Boundaries in Dating
When God Writes Your Love Story 
When Dreams Come True: A Love Story Only God Could Write
I Kissed Dating Goodbye
Boy Meets Girl: Say Hello to Courtship
Sex: It’s Worth Waiting For
Fiction reading for Young Girls About Saving Themselves For Marriage:
Christy Miller Series by Robin Jones Gunn
The Christy Miller Collection, Volume 1
The Christy Miller Collection, Vol. 2
The Christy Miller Collection, Vol. 3
The Christy Miller Collection, Vol. 4
Resources on Intimacy In Marriage
XES: Why Church Girls Tend To Get It Backwards by Joy McMillan
The Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex by Sheila Wray Gregoire
31 Days to Great Sex An E-book by Sheila Wray Gregoire
Honey, I Don’t Have A Headache Tonight:Help for Women Who Want to Feel More In the Mood
Audio Download by Shelia Wary Gregoire
Sheila also has a fantastic blog covering Intimacy and Marriage called: To Love, Honor and Vacuum. Go check it out, you are sure to be blessed!
Hot Chocolate for Couples: Practical Ways to Sweeten Your Love Life
Romancing Your Husband: Enjoying a Passionate Life Together
Romancing Your Wife: A Little Effort Can Spice Up Your Marriage
by Debra White Smith
Resources For Rebuilding After Betrayal
A Way of Escape: Freedom from Sexual Strongholds
Every Man’s Battle: Winning the War on Sexual Temptation One Victory at a Time
Every Man’s Marriage: An Every Man’s Guide to Winning the Heart of a Woman
Every Young Man’s Battle: Strategies for Victory in the Real World of Sexual Temptation
by Stephen Arterburn and Fred Stoeker
A HUGE list of resources can be found here, at the bottom of the Surviving Infidelity Page!
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Thanks for sticking with us for this series on Sex God’s Way! Did you survive the series without too much blushing? Did God move and speak to your heart about something you can give to Him?
Get some of these resources and be open to learning and hearing from the Giver of all Great Things!
It has been a joy and honor to share our hearts with you on this blessing and gift for Married Couples to enjoy!
Oh, and has it been 72 hours yet!?!?!?!?!! 
~Angela from My Heart Ministry and Tonya from 4 little Fergusons
Don’t miss this comment-spurred bonus post: “Sexual Addiction: Road Block To Intimacy”
4 little Fergusons 
Thank you Tonya (and Angela) for all of they posts. They have all been SOOO good. I have so much info going thru my head right now that I have to take some time to organize it all in my brain!:) But is it all good stuff to get organized in there.;) These post are definitely something that I am going to have to come back on and reread to pick out more info that I missed the last time.
Thanks you for following the Lords calling to write this. We ALL need to hear it whether we want to or not!
❤ to you sweet friend!
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Tonya, I was wondering what you thought of this criticism of the purity movement. http://www.patheos.com/blogs/lovejoyfeminism/the-purity-culture
Oh my. I am saddened by what I read tonight. She says because she saved herself for marriage in courting and purity, that she “never learned about the importance of communication and cooperation. I never learned about the importance of discussing expectations. I never learned that relationships are based on give and take, that some times they suck and sometimes they rock, that they’re about hard work with the awesome payoff of emotional support. I never learned how to deal with disagreement or disappointment. None of this. Instead, what I got was “don’t have sex until your wedding night.”
This is an incomplete message. As a parent, I can tell my kids to wait for sex and choose not to date, but in the meantime, surely I can teach the communication and cooperation, discussion of expectations for married life, give and take and more.
Just because you are not dating, you can’t work on these things in your courtship relationship?
I waited. I courted. I am very happy with the way life turned out. I guess I think she is taking a VERY extreme opposite to how she was raised, and her rebellion from it actually has me stunned!
What were your thoughts as you read?
I do not believe that mothers and fathers own their children’s bodies or minds– because children grow up, become adults, and must become autonomous. I do not believe in arranged marriages. I do not believe that men are superior to women, or that women should submit to men. Your parents, as far as I know, did not “choose” Dale for you to marry. What makes you think you should pick out your children’s spouses? As a parent, certainly we must protect our children. But we don’t own them, and they will surely understand this for themselves on day soon, whether or not we want to believe it’s true.
My parents gave me their stamp of approval, and that is what I was referring to when I said help them choose. We want to pray and come right along side them as they select their spouse. It is my heartfelt prayer that they will use wisdom and discernment and allow us to be a part of the process. 🙂
I loved the Christy Miller Series as a teenager! I firmly believe that her books are one of the reasons I saved myself for marriage and desired a God-centered relationship. I would recommend these books to anyone!
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I love you and this series. So kick butt. Now if only my husband would get home from guys night…
Heck. Yeah. 🙂 Love you and miss youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu